12 Questions to ask to Audit Your Marriage (Worksheet)

Here are 12 important questions that long-term married couples might consider asking each other to maintain open communication, strengthen their bond, and ensure they are on the same page as they navigate their lives together:

1. How have our goals and priorities changed since we first got married?
2. What are some new dreams or aspirations we have individually or as a couple?
3. How can we better support each other in our personal growth and individual pursuits?
4. What are some challenges we’ve faced as a couple, and how can we work together to overcome them?
5. What are our expectations for our roles in the relationship, and do they need to be adjusted?
6. How has our communication evolved, and how can we continue to improve how we talk and listen to each other?
7. Are there any unresolved issues or concerns that we need to address for our relationship’s health?
8. How can we keep the romance and intimacy alive in our relationship as time goes on?
9. What are our financial goals and plans, and how can we ensure we’re aligned in managing our finances?
10. How can we continue to nurture and maintain a healthy work-life balance?
11. What are our expectations about spending time with extended family and friends?
12. What do we envision for our future together, and how can we make sure we’re moving in that direction?

These questions can serve as a starting point for deeper conversations between partners who want to ensure their long-term relationship remains strong, fulfilling, and aligned with their individual and shared goals.

It’s important to approach these discussions with honesty, respect, and a willingness to listen and understand each other’s perspectives.